Vanessa Perroncel: ‘The stories are untrue. Who are they to do this?’

• Claims raise issues about media law and ethics
• Model says she refused huge sums to tell story

On Friday 29 January, in a courtroom in London, Vanessa Perroncel’s life changed. She wasn’t in court. She had nobody there to speak for her. But when Mr Justice Tugendhat decided that the then England football captain, John Terry, had no right to suppress a story about his alleged sex life, Perroncel found herself being hurled out into the public domain alongside him.

Until then, she was simply the little-known former partner of another England player, Wayne Bridge. But over the next few weeks she appeared in hundreds of stories. Newspapers ransacked her sexual history for a series of increasingly wild allegations – and followed up with a satellite picture of her home and a detailed map of how to find her. They published an account of a supposed pregnancy and abortion; told tales of her childhood, her parents’ divorce and her father’s death; and claimed to expose her negotiations for child maintenance with her former partner.

Perroncel’s alleged affair with Terry, after she had split from Bridge, became one of the biggest tabloid scandals of the year, resulting in Terry becoming, for a short time, a pariah; and in Wayne Bridge stepping down from the England World Cup team.

Along the way, Perroncel committed one of the worst sins in Fleet Street: she refused to talk to the press. So fantasy took over. She became a fictional object on whom journalists projected classic stereotypes: the beautiful woman who was “gagging for it”, as the News of the World put it; “shameless”, a “maneater”, a “football groupie” in the words of the other papers; the “gold digger” who was “money hungry”, seducing men for their wallets.

As Perroncel says: “They made out that I’m some kind of prostitute. That’s really what they’re saying. And the stories are untrue. They have gone mad.” And then she asks the question which is so obvious and so easily forgotten: “Who are they to do this?”

Perroncel’s experience in the last two months goes to the heart of a considerable confusion about journalistic ethics and media law. Fleet Street claims that its facts are sacred, but there is no effective mechanism to prevent its recurrent indifference to the truth. How do you regulate a free press? And even when the facts are clear, the rules on privacy are vague. Should newspapers drag out and humiliate anybody who has an affair, or visits a prostitute, or who is gay? The tabloids say they are acting in the public interest. Critics say it’s all about commercial interest.

Vanessa Perroncel, 34, is a model. She grew up in France but she has lived in England for 11 years. In 2005, she became the partner of a Premier League footballer, Wayne Bridge, and in 2006, she showed up in pictures of the Wags, the wives and girlfriends of the England team, at the World Cup in Germany. Last year, she separated from Bridge. They have a three-year-old son. That much certainly is true. That much was public before Mr Justice Tugendhat in effect removed her privacy.

Her story – told to the Guardian without any suggestion that she be paid – is very different from the stories that followed. Some of it is still missing: she can’t correct some intimate falsehoods without going even further into her own private life. And she insists that she and Bridge have never breached their own privacy.

“When we were together, we were offered money to do stories, and we didn’t follow it up. We could have had fifty thousand, a hundred thousand. Wayne was uncomfortable about it. I was a model but suddenly I couldn’t work any more because I was also a Wag. Wayne thought I would look ridiculous. We became quite private. We were just happy being happy. We were still photographed turning up at events, for awards or a charity event, but that doesn’t make us “non-private”. I didn’t want to make myself famous.”

Nevertheless, she had a few bad experiences with the press. “There was a reporter who came to the door when I was still with Wayne, and he said he had a story about me sleeping with somebody else. I said: ‘It’s ridiculous, not true.’ He said he could prove it. I said: ‘OK – if you print this, I will sue you.’ “

She says the reporter went away but returned half an hour later with a suggestion from his editor that they would drop the original allegation if she agreed to say that the England and Chelsea footballer Frank Lampard had made a pass at her. “I said ‘You’re crazy’ and shut the door, and they didn’t print anything.”

But she couldn’t handle the story about her alleged affair with Terry. A reporter got to her just before Mr Justice Tugendhat’s ruling. “I said: ‘I don’t want to talk to you.’ She said she had information for me. I said: ‘I’m not interested.’ She started telling me about the court case and what was happening in court. I listened to her and I told her why I couldn’t talk to her.” Which was a mistake: her reasons for not talking were rapidly presented as an exclusive interview. And then the mob descended on her home in Surrey.

“Masses of journalists are outside my door. And they ring the bell, and I say No, and they keep doing it and doing it. They’re putting notes through the letter box, offering me money and then more money. I have my three-year-old son, he keeps asking who are these bad men taking pictures. I just tried to go on as if nothing was happening. I told him not to look at them.”

Eventually, in an effort to control them, she hired Max Clifford. That worked: the reporters left her doorstep and dealt with Clifford. But it also backfired, by provoking speculation that she wanted to sell her story. “I never asked him to sell my story. I never wanted to sell my story. Max said: ‘People are offering money – £200,000, £250,000.’ I don’t want it.”

Six days into the scandal, she put out a statement and clearly signalled that she was not selling. That was when things got really nasty.

The same newspapers who had seen her reject their vast offers of cash now flipped the story around and accused her of selling her silence to John Terry for even more. The Times said she had taken £400,000. The News of the World said it was £750,000 (”Wily Vanessa teamed up with PR to the stars Max Clifford and the pound signs began rolling in her eyes,” its reporter claimed). The Sunday Times adopted both figures. The Evening Standard beat them all, claiming it was £800,000. The reality was that she had not sold her silence at all – and her ability to talk to the Guardian proves it.

Back before the story broke, as John Terry’s lawyers headed for court, his agent had got her to sign an agreement that she would not discuss his private life and, as a technical requirement, he undertook to pay her £1. As it happened, the agreement was legally invalid. “And they never even paid me the one pound. I haven’t had a penny off John Terry.”

None of which stopped the gold-digger stories, which went through a highly hostile chapter when she and Bridge had a court hearing about child maintenance. Newspapers confidently reported that she was demanding £10,000 a month, £15,000 a month, £20,000 a month. “Nothing was true. All made up.”

It was during this period that she and her close friend, Antonia Graham, found signs of telephone interception, which are now the subject of an inquiry by the Information Commissioner’s Office.

In the meantime, the tabloids had also started on their sex-mad theme. The Sun told the world in some detail that she had slept with a total of five Chelsea players and included a quote from an anonymous source, who conveniently spoke in the style of a tabloid journalist: “To say she’s a Chelsea girl is a bit of an understatement. By the time she got to John Terry, she’d achieved her own five-a-side football team.” Other newspapers piled in, throwing in more footballers to feed their fantasy of her sexual appetite until she had a total of eight from Chelsea alone.

The News of the World then passed her around the entire Premier League, explaining that “Serial Wag Vanessa Perroncel was last night branded a voracious football maneater who hunted down her lovers using a Premier League fixture list.” Perroncel was aghast: “This is sick. It felt horrible. I have a three-year-old son, a child that is going to read about this. I’m lucky he isn’t older. My family have been horrified. It is all made up. But you can’t compete. What can you do?”

In the background, John Terry’s camp succeeded in planting a series of stories and photos that portrayed him as a happy family man, taking his wife out to the theatre and showing her how to fish while the tabloids rummaged in Perroncel’s family history – her parents’ divorce, her father’s suicide, her supposed lack of money as a child (implying a current obsession). “I didn’t grow up with money troubles. It’s just not true. My father did commit suicide but they wrote the wrong method. But how is this their business?”

With Clifford’s help, she released statements attempting to stop the worst of the fictions. “No one cared. They don’t want to print that their stories are not true. What they wanted to hear was that I had all this sex with all these people. They really didn’t want to hear that it wasn’t true. I didn’t give them what they wanted, so then I had to be punished. Vilified.”

Readers will notice that this Guardian interview discloses no new detail about her sexual activities or personal life, with or without John Terry or anybody else, male or female. That’s private.

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Wayne Bridge, John Terry and the sex caper breaking England hearts a little earlier than usual

Normally England implode in the quarter-finals – this time it’s four months before a ball is kicked

Another door has slammed in English football’s bedroom farce. Wayne Bridge, whose former partner was reported to have had an affair with John Terry – who was subsequently sacked as England ­captain – has withdrawn from the World Cup squad to spare himself the anguish of a trip to South Africa with his tormentor.

England’s extended sex caper is ­threatening to engulf Fabio Capello’s team, with the opening match against USA approaching fast on 12 June. Normally England wait until the quarter-finals to stage their implosion but this time hearts are being broken early.

The Professional Footballers’ Association (PFA) claimed tonight to have offered mediation in the Bridge-Terry feud but said neither would take part. Students of awkwardness will flock to Stamford Bridge tomorrow to see Terry’s Chelsea take on Bridge’s Manchester City in the day’s big Premier League clash. National news will be spun from the pre-match handshake, assuming there is one.

Bridge is known to be reluctant to feign chumminess with a former friend he considers guilty of betrayal. The truth and ­reconciliation phase is unlikely to start in such a high-stakes game.

Of the main World Cup contenders, only England could concoct such a ruinous vendetta. Former internationals were critical of Bridge for surrendering his chance to play in a World Cup over a conflict that might have been resolved between now and June.

The party line is that playing for one’s country remains the game’s highest honour but some international managers now doubt that theory. Bridge, the second-choice left-back behind Ashley Cole, another fixture of the kiss’n'tell industry, had been expected to set aside his resentment towards Terry, who struck up a relationship with Vanessa Perroncel after she and Bridge had parted. On Wednesday Capello said of Bridge: “No, he will be with us. No problems about the other things.”

But today Bridge said: “I have thought long and hard about my position in the England football team in the light of the reporting and events over the last few weeks. It has always been an honour to play for England. However, after careful thought I believe my position in the squad is untenable and potentially divisive.”

England’s Italian coach has sometimes appeared flummoxed by the self-absorption of his star players and can now see that strict dress codes and bans on mobile phones cannot impose order on celebrity chaos. Complications multiply. In Rustenburg to inspect England’s World Cup base, Capello found the team hotel to be a partial building site and the practice pitches to be inadequate.

The coach doubtless comprehends by now that the England job is a menagerie with a £5m salary to ease the culture shock. Terry was summoned to Wembley and stripped of the armband after a 12-minute conversation that showed Capello at his ruthless best. But there was more collateral damage when Bridge slammed the door on his international career. Some supporters argued today that Terry should resign from England so Bridge does not miss out.

Behind the red-top plot of a partner sliding across the England defence like Jabulani, the official World Cup ball, is severe disruption to England’s preparations. Capello, who names his squad on Friday for the friendly against Egypt next Wednesday, faces the biggest test of his stentorian approach as well as his ability to hold a team together.

With Cole nursing a broken ankle and facing a divorce from Cheryl Cole as a result of his own alleged infidelities, Capello must hope his preferred left-back’s injury heals quickly and will turn in the meantime to the inexperienced Stephen Warnock (Aston Villa) or Leighton Baines (Everton), who have played eight minutes of full England action between them.

In the first-choice England defence, David James, the senior goalkeeper, is 39 and marooned at a club (Portsmouth) who will go into administration tomorrow; Terry has been demoted to the ranks; Rio Ferdinand, his replacement as captain, is beset by persistent back trouble and Cole has taken up the baton of the major injury scare, which England always have. His difficulties stretch beyond a fractured ankle. At the weekend it was reported that Cole used a Chelsea club official, Steve Atkins, to help him deal with the fallout from liaisons conducted on a club tour to America. This breach of conduct prompted Chelsea’s owner, Roman Abramovich, to rebuke his players, via the chief executive, Ron Gourlay, at a meeting at the club’s training ground. Abramovich is known to be exasperated by his team’s penchant for the high life, which evokes Chelsea’s fabled King’s Road swingers of the early 1970s.

Terry was recently granted compassionate leave by Chelsea to visit his wife and children at their holiday base in Dubai. There is also an acceptance that Cole’s attention will be diverted from the World Cup, should he regain match fitness in time to play.

Bridge, who has 36 England caps, is said to be “heartbroken”. Strictly, his withdrawal is no great loss because he was a second-choice and in mediocre form. But sideshows – England’s alternative national sport – seem bound to again undermine a country who have cornered the market in underachieving.

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Ashley Cole banned from driving for speeding at 104mph

Chelsea star, who claimed he was being chased by paparazzi when stopped by the police, receives four-month ban

England footballer Ashley Cole was today banned from driving for doing more than 100mph in a 50mph zone.

The Chelsea star claimed he was being chased by paparazzi when a speed gun recorded him driving his black Lamborghini Gallardo at 104mph.

Magistrates at Kingston, Surrey, today imposed a four-month ban and £1,000 fine.

However, Cole’s legal team immediately launched a bid against the ban, which will be considered later.

Cole, who is married to singer and presenter Cheryl Cole, was on the A3 in Kingston when he was clocked speeding. Though he denied the charge he was convicted at an earlier hearing.

Today Patricia Baskerville, chairwoman of the magistrates, said: “We have taken into account Mr Cole’s clean licence. However, this was an incident of excessive speed, over twice the speed limit on the road and these were exceptional circumstances which we need to mark.

“For the offence of speeding, Mr Cole will be disqualified for a period of four months and will pay a fine of £1,000.”

He was also ordered to pay a £15 victim surcharge and £300 costs to reflect his income and the seriousness of the offence.

Cole, who was not present, was warned if he did drive while disqualified, he could face prison.

His defence barrister asked for 21 days to pay, which magistrates laughed at, but granted.

Cole’s lawyer Katherine Hodson said her client was “regrettably” unable to attend the hearing because he was playing a match tomorrow night and would be travelling today.

An attempt by her to get sentencing adjourned was rejected.

Her application on the driving ban was expected to be considered later.

At the earlier hearing, Richard Lomax, for the prosecution, described the events of 17 November 2008.

He said: “The defendant was stopped and spoken to and the words he said at the time, when it became plain that somebody was pointing a speed camera at him, were: ‘Can’t you do anything about those idiots who keep chasing me?’”

Cole told police he thought he was driving at 80mph when he was stopped just after midday.

Lomax said: “The crown says there can be no other sensible construction of the words uttered by Mr Cole at the time than that he was conceding he was driving at a speed more than 50mph.

“It is plain that he found the attention of persons with cameras unwelcome and he was trying to get away from them.

“The only sensible inference, therefore, is that he was going too quickly.”

He added: “It cannot be a defence to the offence of speeding that one is trying to get away in the circumstances of members of the press showing excessive attention.”

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